We must take advetures.

We must take advetures.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Exploring Eastern Europe



I’ve wanted to do a trip around Eastern Europe since I arrived in Croatia in September. When I came back to school I found out again that I had three magical weeks of no class. I decided to stay in Dubrovnik for a little while to just hang out and relax, but the consisted of sitting inside watching movies because it was raining all day. I had enough of the rain, so I packed my backpack and began my journey with a bus ride from Dubrovnik to Sarajevo.

My main reasoning for this journey was to visit two of my friends Puki and Rebekah and to meet the Jewish communities in Sofia, Bulgaria and Skopje, Macedonia. In order to get to these cities I was able to experience a couple other places along the way.

When I told my mom my travel plans of course her first reaction was “please do not go by yourself” and “please be safe.” I had to remind her that I have been in Europe for five months and nothing bad has happened to me, but after being in America for two days during my winter break my mom’s car was broken into and my wallet was stolen. Many people have a dangerous view of Eastern Europe. Yes, I agree that we must always be aware of our surroundings and be safe and smart when we travel, but I think many people forget that big western European cities like Paris and Madrid are dangerous too.

Sarajevo, Bosnia & Herzegovina                                                                                    
I failed to mention this part to my parents, but at the time of this trip there were many protests and riots going on in Sarajevo because the citizens were tired of their corrupt government and low unemployment rate. I even got a message from my study abroad advisor about a travel alert in Sarajevo....oops. It’s okay; I am home safe and alive. I only went to Sarajevo for one night because it was my connection to Belgrade. The owner of the hostel was nice enough to pick me up from the bus station because the main roads were closed during protesting times. During my one day there I ate delicious cevapi and bought homemade slippers. It was the first time I was the only person in the hostel, but that was okay because I stole all the pillows off the empty beds. The next day is when the trip really started.
Belgrade, Serbia                                                                                                    
For those who don’t know, Serbia and Croatia were at war with each other twenty years ago. There are two sides to every story, but I have been taught that Serbia started the war, but if you ask a Serb they will justify their actions for trying to keep Yugoslavia together, either way they both strongly dislike each other. When I told people in Croatia I was going to Belgrade (the capital of Serbia) I got mixed reactions. The younger generations would tell me that Belgrade was an awesome place to party, while the older generations told me not to go there.
 
When I first arrived in Belgrade it was a grey, cloudy day and there were only 4 other people in the hostel.  I was beginning to regret my decision of doing this trip during off-season by myself. I also arrived on Valentines Day, which is not the best day for solo travelers to experience a city. My crazy Friday night consisted of trying a local food, pljeskavica, which is basically a big hamburger on a plate), and watching a couple episodes of Girls and the Wolf of Wall Street at the hostel with some other travelers.

Saturday was a beautiful day with blue skies, sunshine, and warm weather! I decided to give Belgrade another chance. I started my day walking down the main pedestrian street. It is a huge street full of happy people, many stores and cafes, and no cars. I’m not sure if it was the nice weather, but everyone was outside. It was really hard to not smile while walking down the street and observing my surroundings. You would see cute little children running around, people playing with their dogs everywhere, and many freelance musicians playing wonderful music. My breakfast even consisted of chocolate and fruit fondue at a chocolate café. After that I knew it was going to be a good day.


I met a guy named Oliver while I was wandering around. He was born in Dubrovnik, raised in Holland because his family was placed as refugees there during the war, and is now working with the EU in Serbia. The pedestrian street leads all the way down to the fortress, which also serves as a big park that overlooks the river. We sat for coffee at the fortress and he tried explaining to me the history and politics of Belgrade and how it has served at the capital for seven different empires. After a while it all became so confusing that I was totally lost. We spent the day chatting over coffee and walking around the fortress. We even got to watch the sunset in Belgrade and it was beautiful of course! We went to “the best” sausage restaurant in Belgrade. For just $2 it was definitely one of the best meals I’ve had in Eastern Europe. I said goodbye to my new friend and headed back to the hostel. Some people from the hostel and myself decided to experience Belgrade’s nightlife, which we realized was hard to do if you didn’t know the right place to go. Every bar we walked into was completely full. We met a local named Danko and he came with us to one of his favorite bars. We sat for hours chatting and tasting their home brewed beers. At one point I went to the bathroom and one of the girls standing in line noticed that I didn’t speak Serbian. She was really nice and in her broken English she asked me what brought me to Belgrade. I tried to explain that I study in Croatia and wanted to travel Eastern Europe. After our short conversation she was returning to her table and she said to me “Bye, you are so nice and have a good time in Belgrade because it is way better than Croatia and I don’t like Croatia.” I had very mixed feelings after that interaction. She was so nice and didn’t say anything wrong, but it was very interesting, as an outsider, to experience the smallest aspect of hate within this ongoing internal conflict between Serbia and Croatia.

The next day a Swedish girl named Marie and I were invited to hangout with one of the Catalonian guys in our hostel named Jon and his Serbian girlfriend and her friends. It was a very interesting group dynamic. Jon and his girlfriend communicated in Spanish, Marie, Jon, and I communicated in English, and Jon’s girlfriend and her friends communicated in in Serbian with very little English. It ended up being really fun to hangout with a group of locals. We walked along to river for a couple hours and ate the biggest pancakes ever. We would all laugh at each other when we couldn’t understand what the other was trying to say. Everything would take much longer to communicate because the friends would first decide where we were going in Serbian, then Jon’s girlfriend would say it in Spanish, and then Jon would tell us in English. Overall the day was filled with laughs, broken English, delicious pancakes, and new friends.
I was supposed to stay in Belgrade for only three nights, but I was enjoying it too much to leave so I extended 1 more night. My last full day in Belgrade consisted of hanging out with an American named Sam from our hostel who was studying in Germany. We took a bus to a popular lake and just walked around and relaxed on the rock beaches for a couple hours. We had some time before it got dark so we decided to walk back to the hostel. The walk took an hour and a half, but it was worth it. Sam and I were both heading to Sofia as our next destination and we were deciding if it was better to take the bus or train. While we were walking along the river we came across a half sunken boat with some graffiti on it that was a fish saying, “take the bus.” Clearly it was a sign. When we arrived back to the hostel we decided to spend our last night relaxing so we went with Marie and our other American friend named Eric to the roof bar next to our hostel. 
 
The next morning I went to buy my bus ticket and realized that we got the bus schedule wrong, so we had three hours to either sit at the bus station and wait or go to a café to find WIFI. Clearly we chose the latter option. Instead of finding a cute Eastern European café we shamefully went to McDonald’s. I usually do not eat McDonald’s back in America, but there is just something about the McDonald’s in Europe that appeal to everyone and we do not have any fast food restaurants in Dubrovnik so it was a must. Maybe they are just a slight reminder of home or maybe it is fun to see how each country offers something different. Either way we spent the remainder of our time in Belgrade feasting on breakfast hash browns and WIFI.

Belgrade might not be the prettiest city in Europe (at least it had cool art on the doors), but it is one of the liveliest cities I have experienced (that says a lot considering I’ve visited 35 European cities).

Sofia, Bulgaria                                                                     
My hostel in Sofia (Hostel Mostel) was only 8€ a night and it was one of the best hostels I’ve stayed at. It is very rare to find a full hostel in the middle of February, but Hostel Mostel was just that. I arrived in the evening and went out with some people from the hostel. We mostly wandered around not knowing where to go on a Tuesday night and we ended up in an Italian wine bar… after a glass of wine we all agreed that we should experience somewhere a little more local. That is when we discovered Art Hostel. I’m not really used to partying at different hostels other than the one I am staying at, but Art Hostel was different. It had an underground bar that served as a hot spot for locals. I wish I took pictures of this place; the walls were covered in awesome designs, paintings, and doodles!

The next morning my friend Puki picked me up from the hostel and gave me a fabulous tour of his city. Puki and I worked together last summer in Israel, so I was really excited to be able to visit him and meet the BBYO Bulgarian teens. BBYO is an international Jewish youth group that I was a part of in high school, so I was really excited to meet the members of the Bulgarian Jewish community. Bulgaria has a pretty amazing story when it comes to its Jewish community. Bulgaria is one of two countries (the other being Denmark) that were allied with the Nazis during WWII that saved its own Jews.
It is really amazing how much knowledge Europeans have about their own cities. Puki gave me an in depth tour around his city, including a detailed history lesson. I always wondered why I never appreciated history and I think I finally understand why. Being from a young country, though we do have an interesting history, we cannot just walk around and see Roman ruins or buildings from the Ottomans. During the tour we came across a huge painted egg which is called the "Egg of Happiness" and every time you pass by it you are supposed to touch it and make a wish.
 After touring the city we went for a traditional Bulgarian lunch. Puki was adamant about me trying tripe soup orШкембе чорба in Bulgarian, which he described as a milky soup with cow stomach. Although the description did not sound appealing, it was actually very good. The meat was too chewy for me, but the broth was delicious! Bulgarians also love their cheese fried, so that was a must try. I think we ordered half of the items on the menu and everything was so good! After lunch we wandered the city some more and found ourselves walking towards the Starbucks. Again, another American company that is not in Dubrovnik. Puki tried telling me how inexpensive Starbucks is in Sofia, but I refused to believe him…until I actually saw the prices on the board. Picture the prices at your local Starbucks, now imagine the same numbers but instead of in dollars the numbers are in Bulgarian Lev-which is basically half the price.

After a full day of exploring we went to the Jewish community center to meet up with the BBYO teens. Puki is a program director so he was there to oversee the meeting. After meeting all of the teens it was time for the meeting to begin. One of the teens planned a program about living a healthy lifestyle. Puki translated the entire time for me, so I was able to understand everything going on. In high school we always had fun at BBYO meetings, but I am pretty sure the Bulgarians have way more fun. After BBYO, Puki invited me to hangout with his friends for a night of watching football (soccer). Puki lives in a Moishe House, which serves as a place that holds events for young Jewish adults to gather together.When we went to his home he introduced me to his friends and roommate. Now this is just another testament that the world is a small place. Puki’s roommate Martin and I met four years ago in Dallas, Texas at BBYO’s International Convention. Martin and I became Facebook friends, talked maybe a couple times after meeting in Dallas, and now (unexpectedly) here I am four years later hanging out with him in his own city and own home. 
 It was so nice being able to catch up with two friends and meet the wonderful Jewish teens from Sofia. Not many people from I know can say that they visited friends in Bulgaria and for that I am fortunate to have these incredible opportunities. If I had more time I would have loved to stay and explore the city more, but because I spent an extra day in Belgrade I had to continue on with my trip if I wanted to make it back in time for class in a few days.

Skopje, Macedonia                                                                              
Macedonia is another Balkan country that, embarrassingly, I had never heard of before. The only reason I made my way to Skopje (the capital) was to meet Rebekah, another friend from BBYO.
On the bus ride from Sofia to Skopje I met Travis, a fellow American who has been traveling for one year. We chatted during the bus ride and said our goodbyes once the bus arrived to Skopje. Now fast-forward about 3 weeks later. I am sitting on some rocks in Dubrovnik overlooking the sea and guess who walks in…Travis! It just proves that we do live in a small world. 
 Rebekah and I actually never met before this trip. We worked together in BBYO on different projects and talked through Facebook and e-mail. We have many mutual friends that put us in contact with each other when I arrived in Croatia because Rebekah helps with the Jewish community in the Balkans. She greeted me at the bus station and immediately it felt like we had been friends forever.

The day began with dropping my bags off at the hostel (which of course I was the only person at again) and then heading out to grab some food. Later that night Rebekah invited me to the Jewish community center to meet the BBYO teens and some other members of the Jewish community. Two of the teens that were there had just returned from BBYO’s International Convention in Dallas, Texas and it was so interesting and exciting to hear about their experiences. Never in a million years did I think I would get to hangout with a Jewish community in Skopje, Macedonia.
 The next morning Rebekah gave me a tour around the city. It is funny because Skopje recently decided to become a city full of statues. I’m not kidding. There are statues everywhere. During the tour we went to the Holocaust museum, which again I hate to admit this but I did not know there was a Holocaust museum in Skopje. After the Holocaust museum we continued on and visited the Albanian side, which was organized more like an outdoor market place. It is a pretty small city so it only took about an hour or so to walk around.
 Later that night Rebekah invited me out with all of her friends. Everyone always says it is best to party with locals and everyone is right! One of her friends’ bands was playing at a local café so the night began by meeting some friends and heading to watch her friend sing. His band was awesome and it was so funny because they were singing a bunch of older American songs like “Hit the Road Jack” and “Sweet Home Alabama.” After his band finished we headed to a nearby park to celebrate her other friends’ birthday. Yes, they have birthday parties in parks at night and they are so fun! All of her friends were super nice and they all had amazing English. I didn’t expect the people from Macedonia to have the best English, but it goes to show how surprising Eastern Europe can be. The night ended at Club Marakana where we danced to a mixture of Macedonian and American music all night. It definitely was one of my favorite nights out in Europe so far!
 The next morning was kept short because I had to catch a bus to Kosovo, but Rebekah was nice enough to invite me over to her house for tea and walk me to the bus station. Like I said before I never would have thought that Macedonia would be on my travel list, but I am so happy it made it on there. Skopje is an interesting city, full of wonderful people. I definitely would not have enjoyed my time in Skopje if it were not for Rebekah and warm her hospitality.

Pristina, Kosovo                                                             
Kosovo has a very interesting story behind it and I’m going to try and explain it as simply as possibly. Again, I never heard of this country before taking my European Union class last semester. Kosovo is a very disputed territory and has still not been formally recognized by a large number of states, including neighbor Serbia. 

Kosovo used to be a part of Serbia, but its Albanian population declared independence in February 2008. The two countries were at war with each other in 2004 killings thousands of civilians. The fact that Serbia does not recognize Kosovo as a country becomes problematic when traveling around the Balkans. The rule is that if you start in Serbia then you may enter Kosovo and return back to Serbia, but you cannot do the opposite. You cannot enter Serbia from Kosovo if you did not begin your journey in Serbia because Serbia will look at your passport and pretend like the Kosovo stamp does not exist.

Along with being a fairly new and controversial country, it is also one country that is loves Americans. Pristina, Kosovo’s capital, is probably the only city in the world with both George W. Bush and Bill Clinton boulevards. This love came from Bush’s influence and support for NATO's bombing of Serbia, which led Serbian military to withdraw from and Clinton’s support for Kosovo’s independence. You can walk through Pristina, buy an American flag on the street, and see a 10-foot tall, golden statue of the Bill Clinton. They say that Kosovo is one of the most pro-American places in the world. 
Kosovo was on my way back to Dubrovnik, which allowed me to spend one night before making it back in time for class. I was excited because I got to stay with my friend Theresa who I met at my hostel in Montenegro. She is one of those friends that even though we only spent a couple hours together we bonded right away and have kept in touch since. A couple weeks after this trip Theresa and her friend came to stay with me in Dubrovnik!

My first day in Pristina started with a quick tour around the city. Theresa has many visitors so she is basically an expert tour guide. We stumbled upon an abandoned church and then the National Library, which was voted as one of the ugliest buildings in the world (second picture below). After our tour we went to Theresa’s favorite local café. We ended our night by eating a delicious meal at a Thai restaurant, which I really enjoyed because we do not have any restaurants like that in Dubrovnik.
After a relaxing day in Pristina with Theresa I began my long adventure back to Dubrovnik, which consisted of two bus rides, sleeping in a bus station from 2:00-6:00AM and making it to my 12:00 class!
 Have you ever had someone approach you on the street and just shake your hand just because of for your nationality and demand to take you for a coffee? If not then you should visit Kosovo, where you will feel appreciated as an American.

My adventure around Eastern Europe was everything I hoped it would be and more! I saw cities I never thought I would ever visit, I met people from all different cultures and backgrounds, I ate delicious food, and I learned so much about each city. Eastern Europe is definitely an underrated region and if you ever have the opportunity to explore it I highly recommend going!

I have mentioned a couple times how I believe traveling alone is the most rewarding and exciting experience. After I returned home from this trip I wrote an article for The Abroad Guide on why people should travel alone. Check it out: http://theabroadguide.com/travel-alone-study-abroad/

Friday, March 14, 2014

Happy St. Blaise Day!

*This post is a couple weeks late*

After being home in America for a month, it was time to head back to Dubrovnik. It was so nice to see my friends and family and I even got to celebrate my 21st birthday the traditional American way, but I was ready to return!
I picked the right time to return because the next day was a huge celebration in the city. It was a wonderful way to be greeted by the locals! Just kidding. They were celebrating St. Blaise Day or in Croatian Sv. Vlaho. It is a yearly celebration that commemorates their city Saint, which is St. Blaise. He is the saint that supposedly protects the throat so whenever someone would get sick or has a big singing concert they would go to the church to get blessed. In Croatia each city has its own Saint, but Dubrovnik’s celebration is special. Communities around Croatia come to Dubrovnik for the weekend and participate in all the events.
My roommate and I woke up at 7:00AM from the tambourines banging outside our window. When we looked out we saw a long line of people down the street waiting for their turn in the parade. The city was jam-packed and it was hard to get a good spot for the parade, but we managed. We watched as the little kids walked down the street with the nuns and as the Cardinals of Croatia were blessing everyone in the city. We even got to see the President of Croatia! He would often stop so the children could run up and hug him. It was adorable.
Sometimes I would see pictures of traditional costumes around Dubrovnik, but today I got to see them all worn around the city! Each community had different styles and colors. Monika was able to point out which communities were from the north and which communities came from Bosnia. The little kids dressed up were the cutest!
Throughout the day many Church services were help and many cannons were released. The city was crowded the entire day with families remembering their Saint. It was a wonderful time to return to the city I missed so much.

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Seize the Day: Fall 2013 in Review


12 countries, 23 cities, 6 currencies, many new friends, and hundreds of places I still want to visit! 
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Saturday, February 1, 2014

Christmas in Bosnia



As a Jewish, American these were definitely the 4 most interesting days of my semester.

Lets start from the beginning. My flight out of Dubrovnik was scheduled for December 26th. About 2 months ago I was having coffee with a fellow classmate and now my current roommate, Monika. This was the first time Monika and I really had the chance to hangout and get to know each other. We were chatting and I mentioned when I was leaving Dubrovnik and she asked me what I was doing for the holidays. I never really thought about it. Monika immediately asked me if I would be interested in joining her family in Bosnia for Christmas. Of course I said yes, but I wasn’t sure if she was asking just to be nice or if she was serious. The next day Monika told me she talked to her mom and they are so excited for me to come to their house and that her mom already told her entire family. I was very surprised, but also very excited and a little nervous. Don’t get me wrong, I am very good at meeting parents, but most of her extended family does not speak English and Novi Travnik (the city she lives in) does not have many American visitors. I knew this was going to be a very different experience.
Do not feel bad if you have never heard of Bosnia & Herzegovina, I hadn’t either until I came to Croatia. It is a country that lies directly east of Croatia. It has a very interesting and complicated history. It is made up of Serbs (Protestants), Croatians (Catholics), and Bosnians (Muslims). They each have separate communities and schools. While they each technically have their own language, it was explained to me that it is comparison to American English, British English, and Australian. Even though they are all Bosnian citizens, the Croatians fly Croatian flags and the Serbs fly Serbian flags. 
           
I’m sure Monika and her sisters were tired of all my questions, but it was hard for me to understand dynamics between the different groups and the separation between them. Monika’s family lived in America for 5 years and they recently moved back to Bosnia this year, so they’ve experienced both worlds. I kept reminding myself that Bosnia was in the midst of war 20 years ago and there is no way I would be able to relate to their mindset no matter how much I tried to understand the current situation.
           
My 4 days in Bosnia can be described mostly by eating. I already told my mom that I thought I lost weight in Dubrovnik, but after leaving Bosnia that is not the case anymore. Our bus from Dubrovnik arrived in Travnik at 2:00 AM andwe arrived home to warm soup, fresh bread, and delicious chicken in white sauce on the table. Keep in mind this is the first home-cooked meal I’ve eaten in 4 months. We woke up to a huge stack of pancakes and 3 hours later we were eating homemade chicken-meatballs and mashed potatoes. Even though we were constantly full we just kept eating.
Our first day was spent exploring the city in the freezing cold. Monika and her sister Iva showed me their high school and again answered all my questions about the different schools in Bosnia. Monika was the photographer for the day mostly because everyone stared at us walking through the streets. Since they are not used to tourists they are also not used to people walking down the streets taking pictures and speaking English. We must have looked very funny. We stumbled upon the house that the only Bosnian Nobel Peace Prize winner used to live in. We ended our tour around the city at Hari, “the best Ćevapi restaurant in town.” Not only was it warm, it was delicious! Ćevapi is a grilled dish of minced meat that is traditionally found in southeastern Europe. It is considered the national dish in Bosnia and Herzegovina and Serbia.  

Later that night I went to church with Monika, her mom, and her 2 younger sisters. I have been to church a couple times before, but this experience was much different. Since the entire mass in Croatian and I couldn’t understand anything, it gave me time to sit and think about everything around me.  The major difference I noticed about the church in Bosnia compared to churches I have been to in America was the people who attended it. In America we always talk about the loss of religious beliefs amongst the younger generations and how nowadays when we think of churchgoers we tend to think of elderly people. It seemed to be the complete opposite in Bosnia. The church was filled with young adults and children. I also noticed that religious beliefs are an important aspect in their families. After church we went to a local pub and sipped on kuhano vino, which is delicious cooked wine. 

The next day was Christmas Eve, which meant a day without eating meat. In Bosnia, and many other countries, it is a tradition to roast pigs to eat on Christmas. Literally everywhere we drove we saw families outside roasting their pigs; some roasted 1 some roasted 5. It kind of reminded me of the pig I once saw at a luau in Hawaii. We spent the day trying to explore but it was too cloudy to really see anything, we could barley see 10 feet in front of us. Today was Monika’s Grandma’s birthday so we all took a trip to Grandma’s house to wish her a happy birthday. She didn’t speak English, but words were not necessary. We smiled at each other and hugged. She was the most curious out of Monika’s family members as to why an American has come to Bosnia. After visiting Grandma, the girls all went to midnight mass. We went to a different church that was much warmer, but also much longer and way more crowded. We stood in the back along with about 150 other people. Monika’s mom explained to me that typically if people have to stand then the women stand on the right and the men stand on the left. We happened to be standing on the left with all of the men, because that’s where there was room. No one even noticed us. After church we arrived home around 1:30 AM to a feast of roasted pig and fresh bread on the table.
                     
Christmas day was the day I was anticipating. It was the day I got to meet the ENTIRE family. I’m not going to lie…I was a little nervous. When we arrived the table was filled with food and we started eating immediately. We all share the common bond of enjoying delicious food; so I think eating is always a good way to start off when meeting new people. A couple of Monika’s younger cousins were there whom I met a couple days previous so that was nice already knowing them. 2 of her cousins spoke English but still let Monika and her sisters translate for them. We taught them what an “awkward situation” is so that was funny because basically our entire interaction was awkward. Monika’s little cousin, who is 7 years old, just started learning English so his parents tried to get him to talk to me but he was too nervous. That’s okay because we were still friends whether we spoke each other’s language or not.
In Bosnia it is a tradition that all the “young adults” go out on Christmas Eve and Christmas night. I say “young adults” because they can go out when they are 16 and not have to worry about having an ID. As I mentioned in the beginning, all the Croatians go to Croatian bars, so once again I was the only American in the bar and we were the only group of people speaking English. We were sitting at a table speaking English and Monika’s sister could hear the guys next to us speaking in Croatian about how there was an American there and that they should all practice their English. It was kind of like I was a celebrity. We had a lot of fun and we met Monika’s cousins out, so at least I knew about 5 people. Oh, I forgot to mention Croatians are tall and Monika and her 2 sisters are very tall, so picture a short American walking into a bar and people trying to talk to her and she just shakes her head and dances away. Yeah, that is exactly how I looked. We made it home in time for me to go to the bus station at 2:00 AM to head back to Dubrovnik to catch my flight to London.

Mom, if you are reading this, I am sorry I didn’t tell you about this part of the adventure. You would have been mad at me for not listening to you about going back to Dubrovnik earlier. Love you!

As you should know by now there is usually some adventure that goes on, and while Bosnia was an adventure itself, so was my journey back to Dubrovnik. 

I bought a bus ticket back to Dubrovnik and it was scheduled to leave Travnik at 2:00AM. We called the bus station to confirm the bus was running on Christmas night, we checked online, and we even asked the bus driver on our way to Bosnia. Everyone told us the bus would definitely be running on December 26, 2013 at 2:00AM. Well guess what…they were all wrong. Now I would have stayed in Bosnia a little longer, but I had to catch my flight to London and it was not an option to miss another flight. Monika and her father ended up driving me 3 hours to Mostar to catch the 7:00AM bus to Dubrovnik. Luckily I made that bus and was able to catch my flight. Yes, mom I should have listened to you and I learned that procrastination isn’t always key. 

From now on whenever someone asks me what my favorite/most interesting part of my semester was my answer will always be spending Christmas in Bosnia with one of my new best friends and her lovely family. Yes, at times it was difficult to understand the current situation and it was difficult to adjust to the language barrier, but it was a learning experience. The people are so hospitable. I mean really there was never a time I felt uncomfortable. They eat a lot of meat, so we definitely get along. They also, embraced me as if I was their own family, which I couldn’t be more grateful for. I am so excited to return this summer! 

For all the Gator fans reading this post, you will appreciate the fact that Monika’s dog in Bosnia is named Tebow! Yes he is actually named after Tim Tebow.


Sunday, December 22, 2013

Enjoy Every Sunset

One of the smallest lessons I’ve learned this semester is to enjoy every sunset.
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The lesson started the first day I arrived in Dubrovnik. I was completely mesmerized by the sunset, so I made it my goal to watch as many as possible during my time in Dubrovnik. We had about 5 different spots around Dubrovnik and we would decide each night where we should go to watch sunset. Most of these spots included sitting on different rocks along the Adriatic.
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Everything starts with a sunrise, but it is what you do before it sets that matters. As the days passed by the sun starting setting earlier and earlier. By the end of the semester the sun was setting at 4:15 PM. We tried to enjoy our time in Dubrovnik as much as possible each day before the sun set. Granted we still greatly enjoyed ourselves after sunset.
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I found that it is almost impossible to watch a sunset and not appreciate life.
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I came to a point where I would anticipate what the sunset would look like every night.
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It made me realize that sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it’s a memory. Each sunset sticks in my memory as a reminder that we must appreciate the small things in life.
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Sunset is my new favorite color.
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Monday, December 16, 2013

Istanbul

“To Travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about other countries”
We all know that the media puts images in our heads of what different cities are supposed to be like. When I told my mom I was going to Istanbul her first reaction was “it’s not safe”. It’s funny how the world imagines every city to be dangerous. I have heard from fellow travelers that Istanbul is one of their favorite cities, and despite the popular opinion of Turkey I decided to experience the city myself. I booked a ticket from Zagreb to Istanbul and flew out the next day.

I arrived in Istanbul at midnight and I was nervous because I thought the city would be very quiet and dark. I was wrong. The airport was like Disney World. You could barley move from the gate to passport control. In order for Americans to enter Turkey we must purchase a visa for $20 or 15€. Luckily someone told me that I could purchase my visa online and pay by credit card. That was one of the best decisions I made. It allowed me to skip lines and walk right up to passport control, get my stamp, and find my shuttle. The hostel sent someone who was holding a sign with my name on it and he drive me straight to the World House Hostel.

The streets were filled with people and lights. It reminded me of NYC. My hostel was located near Taksim Square which is the new part of Istanbul with hundreds of restaurnats and bars. As I was checking into my hostel all of the other guests were just getting ready to go out so the hostel was pretty much empty. I walked into my 10 person dorm room and found 1 other girl laying in bed. She told me I was staying in the “fun” room in the hostel, which is exactly what I wanted.

We started chatting and of course the normal questions were asked, “Where are you from?” “Where are you going?”, “How long are you here?” Her name was Rozeeta and she was teaching English in Israel. Immediately I asked her where in Israel she was living and she said Ashdod. It was time to play Jewish geography. I asked her if she knew one of my sorority sisters, Sara Merson, and she just smiled and said she is my friends roommate. What a small world! Rozeeta invited me to join her and her friend Emily on a cruise down the Bosphorus in the morning. Slowly throughout the night the rest of our roommates stumbled back to the room.

We woke up bright and early, enjoyed the complimentary breakfast, and crossed the bridge to the Old Town to make the ferry. There were many people trying to sell us their tours and when we told them no they were still so friendly. One man even walked us to the ferry we wanted to take after we told him we didn’t want to go on his tour. We walked onto the ferry and went to the top deck where we sat next to an American couple from Chicago. They had children our age and we had a wonderful time talking to them. The total ferry ride took 6 hours. We went up the Bosphorus (which is the physical divider between Europe and Asia) and stopped at a town that is just before the Black Sea called Anadolu Kavağı. It is on the Asian side of Istanbul so technically we spent a couple hours in Asia! It was very cute and quaint. There were fish venders up and down all of the streets selling calamari, mussels, and other sea food. We decided to be brave and try the fried mussels. That was a very bad idea. We ended up getting food poisoning in Asia. The ride back to the Old Town consisted of us sleeping and enjoying the views. We looked over the ledge and saw hundreds of jellyfish riding along the ferry. It was pretty awesome.
 That night I was able to meet everyone else in the hostel and while they were getting ready to go out Rozeeta, Emily, and I stayed in an enjoyed our food poisoning.
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The next day was spent exploring in the Old Town, Grand Bazaar, and Egyptian Spice Market. I literally spent hours getting lost, tasting teas, eating Turkish delight, making friends with people in the markets, and hiding from the rain.
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With the food poisoning finally gone it was time to experience Istanbul’s nightlife. It was some people’s last night so everyone in the hostel went out together as a final “farewell party.”
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For my last full day in Istanbul I wanted to explore the newer side of Istanbul so Rozeeta, Emily, and 2 new friends, Laurie and Katie decided to do just that. We walked around the city and then walked along the Bosphorus and made it to the Dolmabahce Palace. As travelers on a budget we decided not to go inside, but we appreciated the beauty from the outside.
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The next morning is where the story gets interesting. Did you think you would get through a blog post without something adventurous happening?

Well I ended up missing my flight back to Croatia the next morning. Apparently traffic in Istanbul is constantly bumper-to-bumper. After buying a new ticket for the next day my friends decided they were going to make my extra day worth the $388 I spent on the new ticket.
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What is the difference between a traveler and a tourist?
That was the question posed at the beginning of the week. We came up with many answers, but my favorite was “One of them doesn’t shower at least every other day.”

I went to Istanbul expecting to take a Turkish bath and visit the Blue Mosque. While I didn’t do anything that I “was supposed to do” in Istanbul, I gained much of an appreciation for the locals, the land, and the culture. I stayed in a fantastic hostel and met amazing people.

A fellow traveler, Stylianos from Greece, could not have explained my experience in Istanbul any better than he did with his Facebook status: “So it happens once in a while that a new place can win you. It might be the landscape, the weather, the sound or just the time of the year you arbitrarily chose to land there. But then comes another arbitrary choice of a hostel, a floor, a room and after one week you start missing the smell, the snores, the laughs, the messy clothes, and the occasional night spooning of some unknowns that have become your family for a while. that’s my answer to our question “what’s the difference between a tourist and a traveler”. As a tourist I might have left satisfied, but as a traveler I left richer. Cheers to you all. Loved you.”

Sunday, December 15, 2013

It's Official! An Entire Year Abroad!

It is funny how things work out. When I arrived on September 15th I posted a picture on Instagram and the caption was "My back porch leads directly to the ocean...this might turn into a full year abroad."

About 2 months ago I sent my parents and e-mail with the subject "Hypothetically..." At first their reaction wasn't very positive, but after some convincing I started working with Dena, my study abroad advisor, and before I knew it I was applying for my extended student Visa!

Out of the 15 American's studying at DIU, I am the only one staying for the year. It will be very weird to have these Americans (who I have become such great friends with) leave and have a whole new group arrive in February. However, I will still have all my Croatian and foreign friends still in Dubrovnik with me.

I am going home to Florida for winter break to see my family and friends. I am also celebrating my 21st birthday in America which I am really excited about. I will be home for about a month and then I will come back to Dubrovnik in the beginning of February.

It will be very interesting to experience Dubrovnik year-round. When I arrived in September you could not walk down the streets because of all the tourists, whereas now there aren't any people besides locals and students. I'm excited to see Dubrovnik transition into spring and summer.

It took me most of my life to realize that if you want something badly enough, you can make it happen, regardless or money and outside forces.